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UN: Kids in Haiti losing childhood amid displacements, hunger, violence
The number of children uprooted by Haiti’s spiraling gang violence has nearly doubled in the last year to 680,000, while those in need of humanitarian assistance now stands at just under a quarter of the country’s estimated 12 million population.
Meanwhile, with more than 1,600 schools directly affected by the violence – including 1,080 ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Dealing with disrespect
Q. My ex just changed the email address that he uses to communicate with me to include a derogatory reference to me. It’s obvious what he’s doing, but I’m having a difficult time staying calm. What’s good ex-etiquette?
A. First and foremost, it’s important to acknowledge that any attempt to disrespect you, especially in a shared co-...Read more
Lori Borgman: Boy's best friend doesn't bark
They say birds of a feather flock together and while that may be true most of the time, I have proof it is not true all the time. Our 12-year-old grandson and a jet-black Cayuga duck sitting beside him, with its long neck and head resting on the boy’s shoulder, have been flocking together for weeks.
The boy says it all began because the duck�...Read more
Planned Parenthood appeals decision on parental notification in abortions
LAS VEGAS — Planned Parenthood is appealing a Las Vegas judge’s decision to not to block a Nevada law that requires doctors to notify parents of minors seeking an abortion.
District Judge Erika Mendoza rejected the request for a preliminary injunction on Sept. 26, writing in an order that the plaintiffs had not established a likelihood of ...Read more
A suspenseful mystery about love, secrets and immigration
In "Danger, No Problem," author Cindy Fazzi has written an engaging mystery about one man’s continuous pursuit of the one he let get away. The story unfolds over 20 years, with chapters alternating between the past (1998, 2008) and the present, illustrating how Domingo’s relationship with his target, Monica Reed, evolved and ultimately led ...Read more
Captivating story of faith, healing and reckoning with the past
In Sandy Hope Stewart’s brand new novel, "Entertaining Angels," Rebekah Lang learns lessons about life that shape her belief system forever.
We meet Rebekah at 70 years old as she’s confronting her lifelong guilt, seemingly for the first time, in therapy. What a prologue! I didn’t quite know what to expect, but it certainly wasn’t an ...Read more
Rest Is Just As Crucial As Action
Q: I'm a high-energy person; being busy keeps me happy. I get bored if I'm not doing something -- career, church, socializing, hobbies, volunteer work, etc. A well-meaning friend suggested I slow down but that seems like a waste to me. What's your take?
Jim: Many busy people consider rest to be wasted time. They see an empty space where ...Read more
Another Slam Dunk for Chatbots Doing the Work
The secretary of defense opens his laptop late at night on Sept. 29. He logs on to his favorite AI chatbot. It greets him.
Hi, Pete. What can I do for you tonight?
Pete? I thought I asked you to call me Major Tough Guy.
You're absolutely right. You did. Thanks for setting me straight, Major Tough Guy. How can I help?
I'm trying to write a ...Read more
The Truth Revealed
Here are some things most Americans believe but I don't:
-- You must have a water bottle with you at all times or you will die of dehydration, or end up drinking Coke instead and die of diabetes. (Or you will end drinking Diet Coke instead and die of something Robert F. Kennedy Jr. is worried about.)
-- Your kid should not play at the park ...Read more
After ICE raids, this Venezuelan mom fled from LA to Mexico. Will she find refuge there?
Jerardyn sat quietly on the bus, her mood relaxed as her eyes scanned the fleeting horizon of Southern California one August afternoon.
But as the U.S.-Mexico border wall, a towering barrier of steel pillars, came into view, she began taking big, deep breaths. Her heart began to race as she clutched her immigration documents and tried to hide ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'THE SMASHING MACHINE'
Rated R for language and some drug abuse.
What it’s about: A biopic of MMA fighter Mark Kerr, following his career in the late '90s.
The kid attractor factor: This is a serious adult drama, not for younger audiences.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Some of those with the most guts don’t get all the glory.
Violence: ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: An ethical question
Q. This is sort of an ethical question. My ex-wife remarried two years ago and even though this sounds a little weird, I find I like him, poor unsuspecting sap. I can tell he cares about my kids and he’s actually a good influence.
Here’s the deal. My ex has always liked her wine, and I suspect it’s causing some problems over there. Her ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Caught off gourd by pumpkins gone wild
I am an accidental gardener. If anything I plant grows to maturity, and by some fluke of nature becomes edible, it is sheer accident.
If we had to survive on what I grow, we would both be very, very thin. Spaghetti thin. We are not spaghetti thin; we are more like rigatoni.
Several years ago, I dreamed of growing potatoes. I threw some ...Read more
6 thrillers that prove secrets never stay buried in small towns
There’s something about a small town that makes it the perfect setting for a thriller. On the surface, you’ve got quiet streets, neighbors who wave as they pass, kids riding their bikes without a care. But scratch just a little deeper and you’ll often find lies stacked as neatly as wood piles, secrets pressed down tightly, hidden well, ...Read more
A heart-pounding tale of courage, compassion and the cost of care
It’s always a treat as a reader to find a book that delivers a powerful social message as well as tells a good story, and that’s exactly what we get in "Under Their Watch" — Charlie Ketchey’s compelling and moving novel about the challenges facing a pair of dedicated child-care workers.
Child-care caseworker Cameron Springer and John ...Read more
Take It Slow When Blending Family
Q: I recently became an instant stepparent when I married a relatively young widower with two children. I'm doing my best to learn how to be "mom" for my stepkids. But it's a LOT harder to connect than I expected. Help!?
Jim: Stepparenting can be rewarding, but it also comes with significant challenges. In your case, there's the added factor of...Read more
Sorry, But I'm Going to Keep Calling You 'Mr.'
I got called "Georgia" by one of my son's friends the other day.
I wasn't insulted -- I know from firsthand experience that kids nowadays have a startling familiarity with adults. My own son and his cousin, both 6 years old, once walked up to my husband's 70-year-old uncle when they saw him smoking a cigar and lectured him on its dangers.
"...Read more
Linking autism and Tylenol: 'This seems like we're going back 20 years'
BALTIMORE -- Pam Stiner can’t even remember if she took Tylenol when she was pregnant with her now 10-year-old son, but the Trump administration’s linking of the over-the-counter painkiller to autism on Monday brought back the self-reproach she felt when he was diagnosed as on the spectrum.
“It’s taken me 10 years to get to the point ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'ONE BATTLE AFTER ANOTHER'
Rated R for pervasive language, violence, sexual content, and drug use.
What it’s about: A former revolutionary has to regain his skills and reunite with his comrades to save his daughter.
The kid attractor factor: This is an incendiary political adult drama — not much appeal for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons:...Read more
Lori Borgman: You won't sleep after you read this
My husband is one of those people who can sleep anywhere, anytime.
He can sleep sprawled halfway on and halfway off the sofa, in a straight-back chair, with three grands crawling all over him styling his hair, and during cross-country flights with severe turbulence.
It’s a gift. The man is so gifted he can even fall asleep while I’m ...Read more
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